Sunday, June 1, 2014

50 Things that make me happy


50 Things that make me happy

On to next 5…

45.  Wednesday 5/28 – While I hate being the center of attention, I do enjoy the texts, calls, and facebook messages on my birthday.  It’s nice to know people are thinking about you!

44.  Thursday 5/29 – I am happy for the gift of time.  I got out of class early, and that extra hour just makes such a huge difference.  And it was my class until 8/27, so I get the gift of time for the next 3 months!  Such a relief, especially with the wedding coming up here shortly.

43.  Friday 5/30 – Weekends bring me happiness.  It’s a chance to catch your breath, reset, and even steal some time for yourself.  Anissa and I met our wedding DJ (also a personal and family friend) for dinner and it was nice to just be away from the house, school, and work.

42.  Saturday 5/31 – I am happy for late-evening chats.  Anissa and I stayed up late talking with her parents about anything and everything.  At one point we were laughing so hard we had tears in our eyes.  Good times.

41.  Sunday 6/1 – Going to church brings me joy.  The last month has been a whirlwind and it’s been so long since we’ve been able to attend mass at our home parish.  We went tonight and it was a breath of fresh air.  Familiar sights and sounds, and familiar faces.  Sometimes routine is a good thing J

 

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

50 Things that make me happy


50 Things that make me happy

Today’s post is brought to you by the number 50.  I am stealing the general concept from some people I’ve seen doing it out there.  I am going to share 50 sources of happiness, one per day until my wedding day.  To spare you the anxiety of checking back every day, I will do 10 posts of 5, so be sure to check back every 5th day!

50.  Friday 5/23 - I am happy for Anissa’s end of the school year and for the start of “summer hours” at work for me.  On Friday Anissa had early-release on the last day of school, and I got to leave work at 12pm without taking personal time off.  Hello happy hour and an early start to a long weekend!

49.  Saturday 5/24 - I am happy for the weather and getting to relax and catch up with my little sister Laura on a lazy Saturday afternoon.  We had a pretty relaxed morning of coffee with Anissa and breakfast with my parents, followed by a few hours just sitting in the sun and shooting the shit (accompanied with a mid-afternoon vodka-soda).  Then we both dozed off while watching the Indians game.  What a great way to spend an afternoon!

48.  Sunday 5/25 - My parents bring me happiness.  I’ve gotten to see them twice this month which is a rare treat for me.  What a roller-coaster life has been for them the last couple years.  I’ve truly enjoyed watching them grow and learn, even beyond their already-infinite wisdom.  I feel loved and inspired every day because of them.  (side note – thanks to my sister Maureen, brother-in-law Ryan, and their future son/my future nephew for giving the family good reason to get together and celebrate!).

47.  Monday 5/26 – Planning my wedding brings me happiness.  Sure, there is stress involved when you are trying to orchestrate a major event with important details.  But through the whole process Anissa and I have found ways to have fun doing it.  Today, we did planning at Buffalo Wild Wings.  How can you be stressed with wings and beer?!

46.  Tuesday 5/27 – School brings me happiness.  I’m taking a pretty interesting class right now that revolves around inventive problem-solving.  It’s fairly “out-of-the-box” thinking for an MBA course, and it’s refreshing in that way.  While the nights are long and my weekends are usually consumed with schoolwork, I get a lot out of my program and I am fortunate to be able to continue my education.

 

Friday, May 9, 2014

4 minutes - the perfect song


4 minutes – the perfect song

The last week or so I’ve been trying to piece together some thoughts for my next entry, and I think it finally came together in my head today.  Hopefully I can articulate as clear as it seemed on my drive home from work today!

I’ve been spending a lot of time lately reflecting on the last couple years.  It’s one of those paradoxes where it seems like time is both flying by and crawling.  So much has happened, and yet there is so much coming up.  As I thought about the last few years, naturally my mind went to the highest points and my lowest points.  I won’t touch on those specifically, but it got me thinking about how people tend to focus on how quickly time flies when times are good, as well as how they deal with adversity.  But then I started thinking about what sustains me when things are neither really good nor really bad…what do I live for?  Am I one of those people that lives from peak to peak, trying to avoid the valleys?  Do I find genuine happiness in my day-to-day life? 

When I think about what sustains me, my natural inclination is to point to my family, friends, and faith.  But then I started thinking beyond the obvious.  I love to run.  I love to learn.  I love to be outside.  I love puzzles.  I love movies that can make me both laugh and cry all within the same 90 minute period.  And I love music. 

Then I had my “a-ha!” moment for the blog.  Music not only sustains me in my day-to-day life, bringing me general happiness as I ride to and from work, spend time at the gym, or attend church.  Music also is something that makes those really great moments even better, and provides comfort in those really tough times.  I have a pretty eclectic taste in music.  While my favorites include country, latin, Christian rock, and classic rock, I also enjoy pop, hip-hop, musicals, and pretty much anything under the sun. 

This week I heard a couple songs on the radio – one that made me reflect on some high points in my life, and one that made me think about some of my more difficult moments.

“Rewind” by Rascal Flatts – this is a newer song by one of my favorite country artists.  In the song the artist is reflecting on a night so wonderful that he wants to rewind it and do it all over again.  I love the melody and something about it just makes me think of some of those super fun summer nights in high school and college that I just never wanted to end.  Every time I hear it on the radio I crank it up and roll down the windows and it just makes me feel happy.

“Get Back Up” by Toby Mac – a couple years ago I started listening to the Christian station in Columbus (104.9 The River).  I just wanted to give it a chance since I do enjoy Christian rock music.  I find a lot of comfort in this station.  The songs are uplifting, and the morning show is just good, clean fun.  It also gets me to work on a positive note.  This song talks about bouncing back from a difficult time.  I like it because it’s a broad enough topic that you can relate it to almost any situation – a serious medical issue, a bad day at work, an upsetting conversation, whatever it may be.  The story within in the song basically acknowledges that we go through tough times, and those times often change us, but that love heals.  I think I like it because it makes me feel like a human – that it’s okay that things go wrong – but it ends with a positive, hopeful message.

So there you have it – 2 songs, both under 4 minutes – spend the 10 minutes and check them out if you aren’t familiar with them already.  Music breathes life into my world.  It sustains me, and reminds me of the best of times, and gives me hope during the worst of times.  What are your go-to songs?  What song makes you get lost in time?  What keeps you going on those tough days?

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Top 10 Highlights from a Fun Weekend


Top 10 Highlights from a Fun Weekend (in random order)

1.       Family of 8 - Getting to see my parents and all 5 of my sisters for the first time in a looooong time.  Feeling refreshed and excited for lots of big family milestones the rest of this year.

2.       13.1 Miles - Watching my sister Carolyn finish her first half-marathon ever.  Trained alone without a group while juggling so many other priorities, and to top it off she beat her goal time.  Rockstar! (or should I say Superstar!?)

3.       7 Months Away - Being asked (and saying yes) to being in my sister Aileen’s wedding this November.  I love family events and I’m sure this one won’t disappoint!

4.       2 Hours of Bliss - Spending time in the yard.  Even if it was just mowing, trimming and weeding, I love being outside and I take a lot of pride in our yard.  Thanks to a very rainy week, everything is looking fresh and plentiful!

5.       Party of 6 - Dinner at a new restaurant – Hudson 29 in Upper Arlington.  Yum!

6.       26.2 Hilly Miles - Watching all the runners in the Cincinnati Flying Pig this weekend.  Anissa and I knew 3 people completing their first full marathon (and on such a tough course!), and they all killed it.

7.       9am Sweet Treats - Morning cocktails in an open-air bar in downtown Cincinnati with Anissa.  While waiting for runners to finish, we may have imbibed a few mimosas and some Irish coffee.

8.       Winning 2-1 - Watching Anissa’s nephew Alex play soccer.  Great weather for some kindergarten soccer (and random playtime with the Drew and Aidan too!).

9.       4 Slices Please! - Shark tank and pizza for dinner tonight.  After a fun but exhausting weekend, some greasy pizza and lazy time on the couch with my partner-in-crime is just what the doctor ordered.

10.   10pm Bedtime - Early bed time.  The next few weeks are going to be busy, so getting to bed before 10pm (vs. the usual 11:30pm) is a real treat!

Sorry, no pics to share from the weekend.  I should get better at that.

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Estimating


Estimating

Wow, it’s been almost a month since I last blogged.  Time flies, I guess!  I’ve been busy wrapping up my Spring semester at Ohio State, getting back into some wedding planning, and getting our yard cleaned up after a very rough winter.  It snowed a few Saturdays ago, but since then we’ve been pretty lucky and had some great weekends (and we definitely earned them the hard way over the last 6 months!).

So, for this entry my inspiration comes from Anissa.  We were talking one night after we both got home from work and she was explaining that her students were learning the metric system.  They were applying it to some estimating problems and we were talking about how some of them were getting tripped up.  It got me thinking about what a useful skill estimating can be in our lives, and what a great application it is of math skills.  I thought I’d share some estimating I’ve had to do in the past few months, and talk about how hard it can be!

Yardwork:  Anissa and I have been itching to get outside and clean up our yard – weed the gardens, remove branches and other debris, and mulch.  We started trying to figure out how much mulch we would need, and estimating came into play twice here.  First, how many bags do we need for our beds?  We ended up deciding to get 30 bags.  We haven’t finished mulching yet, but 30 still seems like a good bet.  But it was hard trying to figure out how much you’d need.  How high of layer of mulch do you add to each bed?  How much is in one bag, and how far will it go?  I hope we remember any lessons learned for next Spring.  We also had to figure out if we could get 30 bags into my car.  We figured it would be no problem.  WRONG.  It was tricky, but we did manage to get them all in there, including room for ourselves to buckle in.  HOWEVER, my car was sagging.  I was very happy we live so close to Lowe’s, because I probably should not have driven with that much weight in my back seats and trunk.  The lesson here?  Order from the Boy Scouts at church and get the free delivery!

Painting:  Anissa and I have been painting rooms in our house and have made a lot of good progress.  But, wow, it is some grueling work.  We have had to do 2 coats on every wall we’ve painted.  We started by painting our bedroom first, and this seemed tough at the time but after painting our kitchen, foyer, stairway, and hallway, I am very excited for another easy, 4-simple-walls room next.   We are hoping to have the entire downstairs repainted before our wedding, and we’ve got the dining room, living room, and family room left to go.  So, where does estimating fit into this picture?  We had very little context for how much paint to buy for each room.  We read some guidelines about how many square feet can be painted with one gallon, but it’s hard to estimate the square footage of a space like a stairway or foyer with so many varying sizes and shapes to the space.  We have pretty much just guessed, knowingly over-estimating because we definitely didn’t want to run out mid-project.  So far, so good!

Food:  I can never get this right.  I think subconsciously I have a fear of not having enough food at a given meal to totally stuff myself like a pig, because I consistently over-estimate.  Pizza?  A large is probably too much for 2 people, but a medium might be too little.  Thus I order a large.  Coke?  Better get the 40+ ouncer.  Out to dinner?  Well, if we’re sharing an entrĂ©e then clearly I need a salad and an appetizer on top of the free bread.  Buying groceries?  I’d hate to not have enough to pack for lunch all week – better get 3 bags of chips!  See where I’m going with this?  Maybe I need to re-read this entry before every meal as a reminder of how ridiculous I can be.

Time:  Where I’m weak at food, I’m strong at time management.  Anissa can attest to this – I have a very keen sense for how long it takes to get things done.  Work.  School.  Errands.  Gym.  House chores.  Painting.  Yardwork.  I don’t know if this skill is something I just inherited from some pretty organized parents and siblings, or if it’s something I’ve developed out of necessity (call it a psychic obsessive-compulsive thing, or a lifestyle requirement based on everything I try to manage).

What types of things do you find yourself estimating?  Do you ever those “a-ha!” moments where you realize something you learned in grade school is actually very useful?

Saturday, March 29, 2014

My Grocery Addiction


My Grocery Addiction

Let me start by first saying that it is currently snowing.  It’s March 29th and we have accumulating snow on the ground.  I know it snowed in late October so we have now had snow for a full 5 months.  I’m not opining on this, just documenting for the future when I’m whining about not having any snow on the ground!

Okay, on to the main topic.  I was up pretty early for a Saturday this morning to get through a ton of random errands and tasks, and as I was thinking through some of the more routine things like laundry and grocery shopping, it dawned on me that I am unusual in that I really enjoy doing laundry and grocery shopping.  I started thinking about why I like grocery shopping.  Here’s what I came up with:

·         It makes me feel productive without chewing up hours and hours of time.  I mean, who doesn’t like crossing things off a list?

·         I love all the quick math and trying to figure out if I can beat my budget and still get enough food for the week.  Some people get frustrated when they see a tag that says 3 for $5.  I like the mental math to figure out the unit cost and then analyze whether or not it’s a good value.  I usually get burned by toiletries – so expensive!

·         I love a good deal.  Coupons.  Sales.  And using coupons when items are on sale!  I think I embarrass Anissa sometimes when we grocery shop together.  I still buy a newspaper most Sundays and clip coupons (I know, I’m about 35 years ahead of myself here).  Sometimes I even go online looking for some.  At the end of the day it’s just a fun game for me to see how cheaply I can get some things.  My crowning achievement was a few years back.  I had a coupon for $0.50 off 1 can of Pringles.  Pringles were on sale for $0.99.  Kroger doubled my coupon and I was therefore paid a penny to take the Pringles home.  Booyah!

I thought I’d share a couple tips I have about how to get some good value at the grocery store.  But first I have to preface where I shop and why.  I do not shop at Walmart.  Not for any sort of moral reasons or anti-corporation sentiment.  I just think their produce is absolutely disgusting and the store is usually so crowded with rude people that the sour mood I have when I leave sticks with me all day.  I also do not shop at Meijer.  I probably should, but I’ve had some bad produce experiences that I have not yet overcome.  As my proportion of produce purchasing has risen, I had to stop shopping there.  But, they do double coupons so I may give them another chance.  I do not shop at Giant Eagle.  WAY.  TOO.  EXPENSIVE.  It’s also pretty inconvenient to get there and back for me; I think I have 3 Kroger stores closer to me than the closest Giant Eagle.  So living in Columbus, that leaves me with Kroger which is where I shop.  On average, it’s probably more expensive than Meijer and Walmart.  But it’s always clean, the produce is great, and the prices are competitive if you are paying attention and have some flexibility in what you purchase week-to-week.

So here are a few of my tips:

1.       Some foods that charge by weight are often great steals.  Bananas (I’m thinking we all know) are a great deal.   But, I’ve found Green Beans can be a huge value.  A pre-wrapped bag of green beans runs $2.50, but bagging your own usually runs about $1.25 for even more beans.  Sure, you have to wash them and probably cut them, but that’s a savings of 50% and they are probably fresher (probably even locally grown).  I also have found that cucumbers and squash offer a good deal of food for the price.  One weighed item that always seems outrageously expensive to me is grapes.  Why do they cost so much!? 

2.       Pay attention to the off-brand products available.  Kroger uses its own name as well as Home Sense for non-food items.  These are always way cheaper, sometimes up to 50% lower than the comparable brand name product.  I think Walmart uses Great Value as its food brand and Meijer may just use its own name.  I don’t think the off-brand products are always as good though.  I’ve had good success with most cereals (imitation Chex and Shredded Wheat), potato chips (Kroger brand is about half the price of Lays), jelly, and many household products like dishwasher detergent, dryer sheets, wet mops (think Swiffer), and disinfecting wipes.  I’ve also had success with Kroger shampoo and contact solution.  I will say that I don’t like Kroger peanut butter or Kroger vanilla wafers.  Any tips you have on off-brand items?

3.       Use coupons!  I’m telling you, if you spend a little time you can save some serious money each trip, especially if your grocer is doubling the coupons under $1.  Between sales and coupons, I try to reach a total discount of 20% off listed retail.  I usually end up somewhere between 12-17% off (it tallies it for me at the bottom of my receipt).  One caution on this – the discounts make you feel good but it could be foolish.  I always make sure I look back and feel good about how much I paid for an item. For example, if strawberries are $5 marked down to $3, that’s 40% off or a savings of $2.  But I’d still like to pay less than $3 for strawberries.

I will say, I have opportunities to learn more about the fuel perks and gift card perks.  I just need to invest a little time to understand how to best game the system.

So maybe if you think of grocery shopping as a menial task, or just a fact of life, try to make it a game for yourself.  See how much you can save.  Try to find the best values and see how little changes you make can help you get more food for your money!

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Zip Codes


Zip Codes

Today I decided I would reflect on the zip code for each place I’ve ever lived.  People have a lot of pride about where they grew up and where they’ve lived, and I am no exception.   So let me take on a chronological whirlwind of my life.

44111 – Cleveland, OH
I was born in Cleveland, OH in the West Park neighborhood and lived there for the first 7 years of my life.  My sisters and I attended Our Lady of Angels Catholic School along with almost every kid on our street.  My mom actually went there as well – in fact, we had the same teacher for 1st grade!  While I was very young when we lived there, I remember what a fun place it was to be.  Block parties, parades, tons of other kids to play with.  We also lived close to “The Valley” which was home to golf courses trails, and metroparks.  Sometimes we just went for drives down there because it was so beautiful.  We still have family that lives in this neighborhood and every time we visit we have to drive by our old house and I’m overcome with great memories.  Can you believe all 8 people in my family lived in this house?  Well my mom’s family of 9 lived there before we did, so that was even crazier!

Cleveland is where I grew to love snow.

75002 – Allen, TX
When I was 7 we moved to the Dallas area.  We lived “way out” but these days it’s a fully-developed super-sized suburb.  One of the things I remember the most about Texas was how friendly everyone at school was.  I was there for 2nd-4th grades and I don’t think I ever had a single enemy.  Gym class was legendary.  One unit we covered gymnastics and Allen Gymnastics (home to Olympic medalists) came to our school and let us play on all of their equipment – so cool!  I also remember one summer when our family friends The Stubners came to visit.  We went to a Rangers-Indians baseball game at the then-new stadium (for the record, Cleveland won 13-4, wahoo!).  We also hit up Six Flags over Texas.  It was maybe the best couple weeks of my life.  Overall, everyone in my family grew quite fond of Texas and the brutal heat.  One final note  - it did snow one time and guess who made friends quick since we had the only sleds in the neighborhood?!


43016 – Dublin, OH
After almost 3 very fun years in Texas, our family headed back to Ohio to live in a burgeoning suburb outside Columbus.  We lived in Dublin for more than a decade including 2 different houses.  We watched the city develop into one of the best places to live, and my sisters and I grew into adults here.  We spent the better part of our high school and college summers working long hours at the Columbus Zoo in the Food Court and Concessions groups (I think I worked there for 9 summers!).  We came to know and love the quirky things about our city, like the cement corn (look it up), the incredible Dublin Irish Festival every August, the swelling pride every time someone mentions Wendy’s (especially in the context that it’s better than McDonald’s), and of course Jack Nicklaus’ famed Memorial Tournament at the end of every May.  We embraced all things Dublin and a great deal of our friends and memories still reside there.

 
43085 – Powell, OH
After graduating from Miami University in 2007 I moved into my sister Maureen’s condo and lived with her for about 2 years.  This was great for me – cheap rent in a nice place and not far from work.  It was nice for her too – help with the mortgage and utilities!  Mo and I had so much fun living together.  I turned her into a Survivor (tv show) fan and we also applied to be on The Amazing Race.  She helped mentor me as I studied for the CPA exam and started my career in public accounting.  Those were definitely 2 very fun and memorable years!

 
28202 – Charlotte, NC
In 2009 my audit firm, KPMG, presented me an opportunity to transfer to the Charlotte office.  I had no lease, no girlfriend, and basically no reason to not take this chance.  So I accepted and promptly moved to Charlotte with no close friends or family.  It was probably one of the most uncharacteristic moves I’ve ever made because I like what I know.  I lived with a girl I knew from work who was also transferring.  It took a couple months but we gradually made several friends down there.  I loved our apartment; we were right in the city.  We could walk anywhere “uptown” – bars, sports venues, work, restaurants, grocery store.  The first Christmas after I moved, I came back to Columbus and had a Miami reunion with some of my college friends.  My good friend Amy brought her friend Anissa who I had met several times before.  We kind of hit it off, and later that week we had our first official date.  Well after I headed back to Charlotte we kept in touch and over the next few months things got more serious as each of us made the long trek to visit the other (she was living in Cincinnati).  Toward the end of my first year in Charlotte, KPMG was working me like a dog and I realized I didn’t want to be an auditor any more.  Additionally I missed my family in Columbus and wanted to be closer to Anissa (Columbus is only 100 miles from Cinci).  So I ended my short stint in Charlotte after only 1 year and took a job with Limited Stores in Columbus.

Night-time view of Charlotte from my roof deck.
 
43235 – Columbus, OH
Everything with Limited Stores happened so fast that I actually didn’t have time to apartment-hunt.  I signed a lease for an apartment I had never seen and crossed my fingers the day of the move.  It turned out to be a very lucky selection, so much so that I stayed there for 3 years.  It was close to work, affordable, and had an incredible pool!  After the first 2 years, my sister Amy moved back to Columbus from Dayton, and lived right across the street in another complex.  What was even better was that Anissa moved to Columbus at the same time and they ended up being roommates for a year.  Anissa and I went from 450 miles apart, to 100 miles apart, to 0.5 miles apart.  Life was good J

 43081 – Westerville, OH
And for the past 8 months Anissa and I have lived in our new house, located just a few miles north of our previous apartments.  It’s a quiet little neighborhood tucked away from the hustle and bustle the northern Columbus suburbs.  It’s close to everything and life is very convenient.  As you may have read, we are spending time improving our house and just settling down and enjoying life now that we are finally together.  And in about 4 months, we get married J

So there you have it, the run down of where I’ve lived.  It shouldn’t go without mention that zip code 13078 (Jamesville, NY) is where my parents lived for a couple years.  I never lived there with them but visited multiple times.  It’s a small town outside of Syracuse, right in the middle of NY state.  What’s great about the location is the proximity to the Finger Lakes, the 2nd largest wine-producing region in the U.S. behind Napa.  There were actually quite a few fun little secrets about Central NY so I thought I’d live it an honorable mention.

We can't wait to enjoy our deck this summer!
 
Unrelated, I will leave you with this amazing sunset we caught on our way to dinner tonight.
Maybe this is Mother Nature's peace offering after the winter we've had.