Wednesday, June 11, 2014

50 Things that make me happy


On to next 5…

35.  Saturday 6/7 – Tonight was Anissa’s bachelorette party which meant I had a night to do whatever I wanted.  A few years ago I read the book Moneyball (great read for all you nerdy baseball lovers), and then for my birthday that year Anissa got me the movie.  I had never watched it, so that’s what I decided to do tonight.  I don’t know what it is about baseball movies, but I just love them.  So that brought me happiness.  A quiet night in, just watching a movie that turned out to be quite good.

34.  Sunday 6/8 – Today was kind of a dreary day with off and on rain all day.  Anissa and I had little to do (or at least nothing time sensitive).  We actually were able to take a nap in the middle of the day.  I used to nap every day in college (in fact, I built my class schedule in a way that allowed for a nap every day around 2 or 3.).  We put on some golf and just snoozed until we woke up naturally.  It was wonderful!

33.  Monday 6/9 – I ran 4 miles today.  I haven’t run that far in one day since the middle of March.  Time is a precious commodity this past year.  It felt very good to complete 4 miles – it almost made me wish I had the time to train for another marathon.  Almost.

32.  Tuesday 6/10 – It was a quiet day at work today.  I love what I do, and I work for a great company.  But the quiet, predictable days are few and far between lately.  It made me happy to have some time organize my thoughts and tasks, and put some real think time into what I was doing.

31.  Wednesday 6/11 – Today, Anissa and I finished our last super menial task for the wedding.  All things left to do are fun and interesting.  Tomorrow marks the 1-month mark until we get married, and that makes me VERY happy J

 

Friday, June 6, 2014

50 Things that make me happy


50 Things that make me happy

On to next 5…

40.  Monday 6/2 – Sunshine!  I was so happy for a break in the weather that was just long enough for Anissa and I to get in our practice session/engagement pictures with our wedding photographer.  And I was very happy with how efficient and professional our photographer was.  She’s pretty awesome.

39.  Tuesday 6/3 – I am happy for guy in the car behind me at the red light just recklessly abandoning all car decorum by flailing around like a fish out of water to whatever song he was listening to.  It reminded me how much I love rocking out in the car.  My earliest memory of doing this was in my Aunt Shelley’s and Uncle Mike’s van when I was 4 or 5.  The song of choice?  Great Balls of Fire!  Such a great memory!

38.  Wednesday 6/4 – Nerd alert!  Learning makes me happy.  A lot of people complain or poke fun at the “touchy-feely” training they have to attend for work.  I really like those kinds of things.  I got to step away from my desk for 2 full days this week to go to a training class, and I totally geeked out over the theory, group sharing, and team-building activities.

37.  Thursday 6/5 – I am happy when I run outside.  I definitely don’t do it enough.  Today the high temperature was 72 with virtually no humidity.  And to top it off, the sky was picture perfect.  Bright blue with the whitest clouds.  It reminded me of the movie “The Truman Show” when he gets to the edge of the set and you see that the world around him was a painted set.  That’s what the sky looked like.  Oh, and I could see the moon at 5pm too.  We live in a pretty cool world.

36.  Friday 6/6 – Pizza!  The fat kid in me just perks up when I know I’m having pizza for dinner.  And I don’t really discriminate.  Take-out, froze, bagel bites, pizza rolls, at-home english muffin homemade pizzas.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

50 Things that make me happy


50 Things that make me happy

On to next 5…

45.  Wednesday 5/28 – While I hate being the center of attention, I do enjoy the texts, calls, and facebook messages on my birthday.  It’s nice to know people are thinking about you!

44.  Thursday 5/29 – I am happy for the gift of time.  I got out of class early, and that extra hour just makes such a huge difference.  And it was my class until 8/27, so I get the gift of time for the next 3 months!  Such a relief, especially with the wedding coming up here shortly.

43.  Friday 5/30 – Weekends bring me happiness.  It’s a chance to catch your breath, reset, and even steal some time for yourself.  Anissa and I met our wedding DJ (also a personal and family friend) for dinner and it was nice to just be away from the house, school, and work.

42.  Saturday 5/31 – I am happy for late-evening chats.  Anissa and I stayed up late talking with her parents about anything and everything.  At one point we were laughing so hard we had tears in our eyes.  Good times.

41.  Sunday 6/1 – Going to church brings me joy.  The last month has been a whirlwind and it’s been so long since we’ve been able to attend mass at our home parish.  We went tonight and it was a breath of fresh air.  Familiar sights and sounds, and familiar faces.  Sometimes routine is a good thing J

 

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

50 Things that make me happy


50 Things that make me happy

Today’s post is brought to you by the number 50.  I am stealing the general concept from some people I’ve seen doing it out there.  I am going to share 50 sources of happiness, one per day until my wedding day.  To spare you the anxiety of checking back every day, I will do 10 posts of 5, so be sure to check back every 5th day!

50.  Friday 5/23 - I am happy for Anissa’s end of the school year and for the start of “summer hours” at work for me.  On Friday Anissa had early-release on the last day of school, and I got to leave work at 12pm without taking personal time off.  Hello happy hour and an early start to a long weekend!

49.  Saturday 5/24 - I am happy for the weather and getting to relax and catch up with my little sister Laura on a lazy Saturday afternoon.  We had a pretty relaxed morning of coffee with Anissa and breakfast with my parents, followed by a few hours just sitting in the sun and shooting the shit (accompanied with a mid-afternoon vodka-soda).  Then we both dozed off while watching the Indians game.  What a great way to spend an afternoon!

48.  Sunday 5/25 - My parents bring me happiness.  I’ve gotten to see them twice this month which is a rare treat for me.  What a roller-coaster life has been for them the last couple years.  I’ve truly enjoyed watching them grow and learn, even beyond their already-infinite wisdom.  I feel loved and inspired every day because of them.  (side note – thanks to my sister Maureen, brother-in-law Ryan, and their future son/my future nephew for giving the family good reason to get together and celebrate!).

47.  Monday 5/26 – Planning my wedding brings me happiness.  Sure, there is stress involved when you are trying to orchestrate a major event with important details.  But through the whole process Anissa and I have found ways to have fun doing it.  Today, we did planning at Buffalo Wild Wings.  How can you be stressed with wings and beer?!

46.  Tuesday 5/27 – School brings me happiness.  I’m taking a pretty interesting class right now that revolves around inventive problem-solving.  It’s fairly “out-of-the-box” thinking for an MBA course, and it’s refreshing in that way.  While the nights are long and my weekends are usually consumed with schoolwork, I get a lot out of my program and I am fortunate to be able to continue my education.

 

Friday, May 9, 2014

4 minutes - the perfect song


4 minutes – the perfect song

The last week or so I’ve been trying to piece together some thoughts for my next entry, and I think it finally came together in my head today.  Hopefully I can articulate as clear as it seemed on my drive home from work today!

I’ve been spending a lot of time lately reflecting on the last couple years.  It’s one of those paradoxes where it seems like time is both flying by and crawling.  So much has happened, and yet there is so much coming up.  As I thought about the last few years, naturally my mind went to the highest points and my lowest points.  I won’t touch on those specifically, but it got me thinking about how people tend to focus on how quickly time flies when times are good, as well as how they deal with adversity.  But then I started thinking about what sustains me when things are neither really good nor really bad…what do I live for?  Am I one of those people that lives from peak to peak, trying to avoid the valleys?  Do I find genuine happiness in my day-to-day life? 

When I think about what sustains me, my natural inclination is to point to my family, friends, and faith.  But then I started thinking beyond the obvious.  I love to run.  I love to learn.  I love to be outside.  I love puzzles.  I love movies that can make me both laugh and cry all within the same 90 minute period.  And I love music. 

Then I had my “a-ha!” moment for the blog.  Music not only sustains me in my day-to-day life, bringing me general happiness as I ride to and from work, spend time at the gym, or attend church.  Music also is something that makes those really great moments even better, and provides comfort in those really tough times.  I have a pretty eclectic taste in music.  While my favorites include country, latin, Christian rock, and classic rock, I also enjoy pop, hip-hop, musicals, and pretty much anything under the sun. 

This week I heard a couple songs on the radio – one that made me reflect on some high points in my life, and one that made me think about some of my more difficult moments.

“Rewind” by Rascal Flatts – this is a newer song by one of my favorite country artists.  In the song the artist is reflecting on a night so wonderful that he wants to rewind it and do it all over again.  I love the melody and something about it just makes me think of some of those super fun summer nights in high school and college that I just never wanted to end.  Every time I hear it on the radio I crank it up and roll down the windows and it just makes me feel happy.

“Get Back Up” by Toby Mac – a couple years ago I started listening to the Christian station in Columbus (104.9 The River).  I just wanted to give it a chance since I do enjoy Christian rock music.  I find a lot of comfort in this station.  The songs are uplifting, and the morning show is just good, clean fun.  It also gets me to work on a positive note.  This song talks about bouncing back from a difficult time.  I like it because it’s a broad enough topic that you can relate it to almost any situation – a serious medical issue, a bad day at work, an upsetting conversation, whatever it may be.  The story within in the song basically acknowledges that we go through tough times, and those times often change us, but that love heals.  I think I like it because it makes me feel like a human – that it’s okay that things go wrong – but it ends with a positive, hopeful message.

So there you have it – 2 songs, both under 4 minutes – spend the 10 minutes and check them out if you aren’t familiar with them already.  Music breathes life into my world.  It sustains me, and reminds me of the best of times, and gives me hope during the worst of times.  What are your go-to songs?  What song makes you get lost in time?  What keeps you going on those tough days?

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Top 10 Highlights from a Fun Weekend


Top 10 Highlights from a Fun Weekend (in random order)

1.       Family of 8 - Getting to see my parents and all 5 of my sisters for the first time in a looooong time.  Feeling refreshed and excited for lots of big family milestones the rest of this year.

2.       13.1 Miles - Watching my sister Carolyn finish her first half-marathon ever.  Trained alone without a group while juggling so many other priorities, and to top it off she beat her goal time.  Rockstar! (or should I say Superstar!?)

3.       7 Months Away - Being asked (and saying yes) to being in my sister Aileen’s wedding this November.  I love family events and I’m sure this one won’t disappoint!

4.       2 Hours of Bliss - Spending time in the yard.  Even if it was just mowing, trimming and weeding, I love being outside and I take a lot of pride in our yard.  Thanks to a very rainy week, everything is looking fresh and plentiful!

5.       Party of 6 - Dinner at a new restaurant – Hudson 29 in Upper Arlington.  Yum!

6.       26.2 Hilly Miles - Watching all the runners in the Cincinnati Flying Pig this weekend.  Anissa and I knew 3 people completing their first full marathon (and on such a tough course!), and they all killed it.

7.       9am Sweet Treats - Morning cocktails in an open-air bar in downtown Cincinnati with Anissa.  While waiting for runners to finish, we may have imbibed a few mimosas and some Irish coffee.

8.       Winning 2-1 - Watching Anissa’s nephew Alex play soccer.  Great weather for some kindergarten soccer (and random playtime with the Drew and Aidan too!).

9.       4 Slices Please! - Shark tank and pizza for dinner tonight.  After a fun but exhausting weekend, some greasy pizza and lazy time on the couch with my partner-in-crime is just what the doctor ordered.

10.   10pm Bedtime - Early bed time.  The next few weeks are going to be busy, so getting to bed before 10pm (vs. the usual 11:30pm) is a real treat!

Sorry, no pics to share from the weekend.  I should get better at that.

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Estimating


Estimating

Wow, it’s been almost a month since I last blogged.  Time flies, I guess!  I’ve been busy wrapping up my Spring semester at Ohio State, getting back into some wedding planning, and getting our yard cleaned up after a very rough winter.  It snowed a few Saturdays ago, but since then we’ve been pretty lucky and had some great weekends (and we definitely earned them the hard way over the last 6 months!).

So, for this entry my inspiration comes from Anissa.  We were talking one night after we both got home from work and she was explaining that her students were learning the metric system.  They were applying it to some estimating problems and we were talking about how some of them were getting tripped up.  It got me thinking about what a useful skill estimating can be in our lives, and what a great application it is of math skills.  I thought I’d share some estimating I’ve had to do in the past few months, and talk about how hard it can be!

Yardwork:  Anissa and I have been itching to get outside and clean up our yard – weed the gardens, remove branches and other debris, and mulch.  We started trying to figure out how much mulch we would need, and estimating came into play twice here.  First, how many bags do we need for our beds?  We ended up deciding to get 30 bags.  We haven’t finished mulching yet, but 30 still seems like a good bet.  But it was hard trying to figure out how much you’d need.  How high of layer of mulch do you add to each bed?  How much is in one bag, and how far will it go?  I hope we remember any lessons learned for next Spring.  We also had to figure out if we could get 30 bags into my car.  We figured it would be no problem.  WRONG.  It was tricky, but we did manage to get them all in there, including room for ourselves to buckle in.  HOWEVER, my car was sagging.  I was very happy we live so close to Lowe’s, because I probably should not have driven with that much weight in my back seats and trunk.  The lesson here?  Order from the Boy Scouts at church and get the free delivery!

Painting:  Anissa and I have been painting rooms in our house and have made a lot of good progress.  But, wow, it is some grueling work.  We have had to do 2 coats on every wall we’ve painted.  We started by painting our bedroom first, and this seemed tough at the time but after painting our kitchen, foyer, stairway, and hallway, I am very excited for another easy, 4-simple-walls room next.   We are hoping to have the entire downstairs repainted before our wedding, and we’ve got the dining room, living room, and family room left to go.  So, where does estimating fit into this picture?  We had very little context for how much paint to buy for each room.  We read some guidelines about how many square feet can be painted with one gallon, but it’s hard to estimate the square footage of a space like a stairway or foyer with so many varying sizes and shapes to the space.  We have pretty much just guessed, knowingly over-estimating because we definitely didn’t want to run out mid-project.  So far, so good!

Food:  I can never get this right.  I think subconsciously I have a fear of not having enough food at a given meal to totally stuff myself like a pig, because I consistently over-estimate.  Pizza?  A large is probably too much for 2 people, but a medium might be too little.  Thus I order a large.  Coke?  Better get the 40+ ouncer.  Out to dinner?  Well, if we’re sharing an entrĂ©e then clearly I need a salad and an appetizer on top of the free bread.  Buying groceries?  I’d hate to not have enough to pack for lunch all week – better get 3 bags of chips!  See where I’m going with this?  Maybe I need to re-read this entry before every meal as a reminder of how ridiculous I can be.

Time:  Where I’m weak at food, I’m strong at time management.  Anissa can attest to this – I have a very keen sense for how long it takes to get things done.  Work.  School.  Errands.  Gym.  House chores.  Painting.  Yardwork.  I don’t know if this skill is something I just inherited from some pretty organized parents and siblings, or if it’s something I’ve developed out of necessity (call it a psychic obsessive-compulsive thing, or a lifestyle requirement based on everything I try to manage).

What types of things do you find yourself estimating?  Do you ever those “a-ha!” moments where you realize something you learned in grade school is actually very useful?